All it takes is 10 mindful minutes | Andy Puddicombe

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Translator: Joseph Geni
Reviewer: Morton Bast We live in an incredibly busy world. The pace of life is often frantic,
our minds are always busy, and we’re always doing something. So with that in mind,
I’d like you just to take a moment to think, when did you last take
any time to do nothing? Just 10 minutes, undisturbed? And when I say nothing, I do mean nothing. So that’s no emailing,
texting, no Internet, no TV, no chatting, no eating, no reading. Not even sitting there
reminiscing about the past or planning for the future. Simply doing nothing. I see a lot of very blank faces. (Laughter) You probably have to go a long way back. And this is an extraordinary thing, right? We’re talking about our mind. The mind, our most valuable
and precious resource, through which we experience
every single moment of our life. The mind that we rely upon to be happy, content,
emotionally stable as individuals, and at the same time,
to be kind and thoughtful and considerate
in our relationships with others. This is the same mind that we depend upon to be focused, creative, spontaneous, and to perform at our very best
in everything that we do. And yet, we don’t take
any time out to look after it. In fact, we spend more time
looking after our cars, our clothes and our hair than we — okay, maybe not our hair, (Laughter) but you see where I’m going. The result, of course,
is that we get stressed. You know, the mind whizzes away
like a washing machine going round and round,
lots of difficult, confusing emotions, and we don’t really know
how to deal with that. And the sad fact
is that we are so distracted that we’re no longer present
in the world in which we live. We miss out on the things
that are most important to us, and the crazy thing
is that everybody just assumes, that’s the way life is, so we’ve just
kind of got to get on with it. That’s really not how it has to be. So I was about 11 when I went along
to my first meditation class. And trust me, it had all the stereotypes
that you can imagine, the sitting cross-legged on the floor, the incense, the herbal tea,
the vegetarians, the whole deal, but my mom was going and I was intrigued,
so I went along with her. I’d also seen a few kung fu movies, and secretly I kind of thought
I might be able to learn how to fly, but I was very young at the time. Now as I was there, I guess,
like a lot of people, I assumed that it was just
an aspirin for the mind. You get stressed, you do some meditation. I hadn’t really thought that it could be
sort of preventative in nature, until I was about 20, when a number
of things happened in my life in quite quick succession, really serious things
which just flipped my life upside down and all of a sudden
I was inundated with thoughts, inundated with difficult emotions
that I didn’t know how to cope with. Every time I sort of pushed one down, another one would pop back up again. It was a really very stressful time. I guess we all deal with stress
in different ways. Some people will bury themselves in work,
grateful for the distraction. Others will turn to their friends,
their family, looking for support. Some people hit the bottle,
start taking medication. My own way of dealing with it
was to become a monk. So I quit my degree,
I headed off to the Himalayas, I became a monk, and I started
studying meditation. People often ask me
what I learned from that time. Well, obviously it changed things. Let’s face it, becoming a celibate monk
is going to change a number of things. But it was more than that. It taught me — it gave me
a greater appreciation, an understanding for the present moment. By that I mean not being lost in thought, not being distracted, not being overwhelmed
by difficult emotions, but instead learning how to be
in the here and now, how to be mindful, how to be present. I think the present moment
is so underrated. It sounds so ordinary, and yet we spend so little time
in the present moment that it’s anything but ordinary. There was a research paper that came
out of Harvard, just recently, that said on average, our minds
are lost in thought almost 47 percent of the time. 47 percent. At the same time, this sort
of constant mind-wandering is also a direct cause of unhappiness. Now we’re not here for that long anyway, but to spend almost half
of our life lost in thought and potentially quite unhappy, I don’t know, it just kind
of seems tragic, actually, especially when there’s something
we can do about it, when there’s a positive,
practical, achievable, scientifically proven technique which allows our mind to be more healthy, to be more mindful and less distracted. And the beauty of it is that even though it need only take about 10 minutes a day, it impacts our entire life. But we need to know how to do it. We need an exercise. We need a framework
to learn how to be more mindful. That’s essentially what meditation is. It’s familiarizing ourselves
with the present moment. But we also need to know
how to approach it in the right way to get the best from it. And that’s what these are for,
in case you’ve been wondering, because most people assume that meditation
is all about stopping thoughts, getting rid of emotions,
somehow controlling the mind, but actually it’s quite
different from that. It’s more about stepping back, sort of seeing the thought clearly, witnessing it coming and going,
emotions coming and going without judgment,
but with a relaxed, focused mind. So for example, right now, if I focus too much on the balls, then there’s no way I can relax
and talk to you at the same time. Equally, if I relax too much
talking to you, there’s no way I can focus on the balls. I’m going to drop them. Now in life, and in meditation, there’ll be times when the focus
becomes a little bit too intense, and life starts to feel a bit like this. It’s a very uncomfortable
way to live life, when you get this tight and stressed. At other times, we might take our foot off
the gas a little bit too much, and things just become a sort
of little bit like this. Of course in meditation — (Snores) we’re going to end up falling asleep. So we’re looking for a balance,
a focused relaxation where we can allow thoughts to come and go without all the usual involvement. Now, what usually happens
when we’re learning to be mindful is that we get distracted by a thought. Let’s say this is an anxious thought. Everything’s going fine,
and we see the anxious thought. “Oh, I didn’t realize
I was worried about that.” You go back to it, repeat it. “Oh, I am worried. I really am worried.
Wow, there’s so much anxiety.” And before we know it, right, we’re anxious about feeling anxious. (Laughter) You know, this is crazy. We do this all the time,
even on an everyday level. If you think about the last time
you had a wobbly tooth. You know it’s wobbly,
and you know that it hurts. But what do you do every 20, 30 seconds? (Mumbling) It does hurt. And we reinforce the storyline, right? And we just keep telling ourselves,
and we do it all the time. And it’s only in learning
to watch the mind in this way that we can start to let go
of those storylines and patterns of mind. But when you sit down
and you watch the mind in this way, you might see many different patterns. You might find a mind
that’s really restless and — the whole time. Don’t be surprised if you feel
a bit agitated in your body when you sit down to do nothing
and your mind feels like that. You might find a mind that’s very dull and boring, and it’s just,
almost mechanical, it just seems it’s as if you’re
getting up, going to work, eat, sleep, get up, work. Or it might just be
that one little nagging thought that just goes round and round your mind. Well, whatever it is, meditation offers the opportunity,
the potential to step back and to get a different perspective, to see that things aren’t always
as they appear. We can’t change every little thing
that happens to us in life, but we can change
the way that we experience it. That’s the potential
of meditation, of mindfulness. You don’t have to burn any incense, and you definitely don’t have
to sit on the floor. All you need to do
is to take 10 minutes out a day to step back, to familiarize yourself
with the present moment so that you get to experience
a greater sense of focus, calm and clarity in your life. Thank you very much. (Applause)

 

96 Responses

  1. Bách Vũ

    April 6, 2019 3:43 pm

    So meaning. Somehow I've taken myself too intense these days. Mindfulness, I would try. Thank u.

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  2. Amol Joshi

    April 9, 2019 1:37 pm

    Superb points put across with such ease and perfect selection of words ! I'm definitely giving it a try.

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  3. Emma Langmaid

    April 16, 2019 7:40 am

    it’s so weird to have his voice in my ears every morning for months and seeing it connected to a body

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  4. Jane lane

    April 17, 2019 12:18 pm

    Over coming anxiety is not always so simple as mediation and mindfulness, A lot of anxiety is caused by trauma and people have to do specific trauma therapy as well as mediate. Underlying health conditions cause these problems and if you don not address them no amount to meditation is going to fix this.

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  5. Aleksandar Nikolov

    April 18, 2019 4:21 pm

    Great talk! However throughout our evolution our brain has outweighed the importance of our heart and stomach – namely our emotional and intuitive brains. By getting rid of the mind and doing nothing, we can reconnect to faculties which are suppressed and abandoned to an extent which now makes people laugh at you when you tell them these facts. We are so blinded by distractions in our visually rich world full of things to do, temptations, needs, wants, cravings… By doing nothing (meditating), we become healthier, more focused, happier and build stronger and more valuable relationships with people around us.

    Blessings to all humans and living entities on Earth and Earth itself. We are all energy vibrating at the frequency of love.

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  6. Patrick Thibaut

    April 21, 2019 5:49 pm

    Nothing against mindfulness if it helps people, but for the life of me I can't imagine why I would want to stop thinking. Most frustrating activity ever.

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  7. Max Valentine

    April 28, 2019 2:04 am

    Oh my god he looks much different than how I pictured him from his voice in the app…

    He's fucking f i t

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  8. Jens Raab

    April 29, 2019 3:46 pm

    Am I the only one to whom this talk does not resonate?

    It seems like a lot of fluff and vacuous talk to me, nothing of substance.

    I pretty much never just do nothing but I'm relaxed. I love reading and will never go to a doctor's appointment without a book lest I end up waiting for my turn, staring at the wall with nothing (!) to do – yet reading engages my mind; I let my thoughts wander when I go running – after which I feel physically exhausted but mentally fresh.

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  9. yoshu

    May 3, 2019 3:25 pm

    Everytime i hear his voice,
    My mind wanders and then i gently bring my attention back into my body

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  10. Mihail Colun

    May 3, 2019 8:18 pm

    Don't expect fast results, it may take months or years to feel visible consequences. Once it becomes consistent, its effect is like a wave in your life, the more you practice it, the stronger are its results

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  11. Lucinda Samira

    May 4, 2019 11:33 am

    Omg i recognized his voice from the headspace app immediately without knowing it was him!! Love his voice so much!

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  12. xWabbli

    May 5, 2019 12:24 am

    Love his voice. I was always curious about how he looks like, whenever I heard his beautiful, relaxing voice on Headspace.

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  13. ajyaluna

    May 7, 2019 2:13 pm

    Muslims are required to pray 5 times a day with full khoshoo (presence) ..
    This video seems like an explanation of this obligation..

    Reply
  14. Threelly AI

    May 8, 2019 3:28 pm

    Oops
    https://chrome.google.com/webstore/detail/threelly-ai-for-youtube/dfohlnjmjiipcppekkbhbabjbnikkibo

    Reply
  15. Aquilaria's Dream

    May 30, 2019 4:51 am

    Amyone who listens to this bullshit is a total idiot! Rrmember, you're using the internet to buy into his bullshit!

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  16. snekboi

    June 3, 2019 8:23 am

    I love his voice. I actually watch the Headspace ads because of it. Pleasant little bonus before a video.

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  17. oliver green

    June 4, 2019 8:48 pm

    I’m on probation rehabilitation and they had shown us this video today, was a good watch

    Reply
  18. Luke Cague

    June 4, 2019 9:59 pm

    I'm guessing he can't plug his app, so he implanted the thought in your head by presenting the round orange balls. So when you Google "mindfulness apps", Headspace will pop up and you will automatically go for the round orange logo of Headspace. Well played, mate. Clever, but I am cleverer. Your app is great though 😛

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  19. Sarah Sabti

    June 9, 2019 12:22 pm

    Wow, it is good one to watch and it makes me really thinking seriously about what he said "meditation"

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  20. Taifun98X

    June 11, 2019 5:35 pm

    If your mind is drifting away during his talk and you don't know what he was talking about for the last 9 minutes…

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  21. Elijah Gabriel Santos

    June 17, 2019 8:40 am

    Apart from that he also does 100 push ups, sit ups, squats and a 10 km run daily.

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  22. PoSeiDoN VeNuH

    June 18, 2019 6:38 am

    When I downloaded the app HEADSPACE, I imagined the voice to be a young thin and tall guy with wavy hair. But I'm not disappointed.

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  23. skelebob squarepants

    June 22, 2019 9:30 pm

    This guy is amazing but he lied to me… He said its ten minutes but the video is only 9 MINUTES AND 25 SECONDS AAAAAAAAAAAH

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  24. Elias Knobbel

    July 14, 2019 9:19 pm

    Everybody does nothing when ther trying to sleep. And if u have enough sleep u dont need fing medication or medication at all.

    Change my mind

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  25. Matthew Hart

    July 19, 2019 8:04 pm

    In that whole entire speech he never told me what to do for those 10 minutes I'm supposed to do nothing.

    Oh.

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  26. Bhikkhu Pesala

    July 23, 2019 8:05 am

    Superficial practice will only bring superficial results. Ten minutes is better than nothing, but ideally one should practice mindfulness throughout the entire day, whenever one is awake. The minimum period of practice required to get a good understanding of mindfulness meditation is a ten-day course, practising 18 hours a day while observing silence, and devoting 100% of one's efforts to the cultivation of mindfulness.

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  27. S S

    July 23, 2019 11:49 pm

    Such a simple and sweet way of talking about the restless mind that has plagued many with complex dysfunctions!

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  28. Tai Lopez

    July 26, 2019 6:53 am

    In case you are wondering how he's able to juggle the balls 🔴🔴🔴 so effortlessly, he has a Degree in circus or something.

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  29. đạt trần

    July 27, 2019 5:54 pm

    actually, I practiced 30 mindful time everday, and another 30 minutes deep meditation in the same day, I ensure it will not bring you any benefits at the first place, However, It's like a brick layer, you will build this sense of sensation and consciousness in your own self. After 15 days, In my case, I felt my head was really clear and tranquil, it is not bursted out by a lot of thoughts or noises. Like Chinese proverbs said :" Constantly talking to yourself is a sign of madness." We still need sometimes of the day to be calm and mindful.

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  30. Count

    July 28, 2019 4:33 am

    What if you don't like/need/want mindfulness? I'm forced to do it at school. When l say that l don't like it, l'm still forced to do it.
    Drives me mad.

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  31. 徐茂伟

    July 30, 2019 10:41 am

    Just 10 mins per day enjoining the present moment by speculating nothing,enjoying the clouds of anxiety and emptiness and many many past things.By this,we can change the experience of ourselves to the changeable world,instead of be slave to it.

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  32. Artistofun

    August 4, 2019 9:05 pm

    You (we), western guys, were being trained to be weak and stressful by our own culture in the first place. Then we started looking for any voodoo magic to fix it.

    But the truth is you don't need meditation to live a decent life.

    More than that, our ancestors (western culture) conquered and ruled the whole world without meditation and all these teenagers' hobbies.

    But now we're gradually losing it (to china, to islamic world etc.) — that is the core reason behind all existential crisis etc.

    And meditation is not the answer, well not more than a chamomile tea.
    Which I love btw 🙂

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  33. Adam Jackson

    August 6, 2019 12:57 pm

    I wonder how everyone’s anxiety was doing the longer he was up there without even mentioning the fact he was holding those balls. Perhaps I’m projecting.

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